Breaking up with a boyfriend can be a very emotionally tough, saddening and stressful experience, especially if you do not think the separation was for the best. If you believe that you and your boyfriend are better off together and want to attempt to give your relationship another try, there are several things that you can do to attract him and bring him back into your life.
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Assess yourself. Breakups happen for a reason. Obviously, there were some issues that both you and your boyfriend had with each other. Take a long, hard look at why your breakup occurred, and evaluate the things that your boyfriend perhaps didn't like about you. Consider if he had a point. If he complained that you were always running late or that you didn't set aside enough time for him, think about changing those things and improving yourself, both for the sake of your relationship and also for your own well-being.
2Allow him his space. If you wish to do so, indicate to him your desire to get back together. However, that is not to say that you should smother him. Smothering him is probably the last thing you want to do in order to attract him back. Let him have space to breathe and think about the relationship and what happened between you two. Alert him firmly about your wish to get back together and how you want to work on changing things for the future, but avoid barraging him with constant emails, text messages and phone calls. You do not want to come across like a desperate stalker, as it simply isn't attractive (or likable) behavior.
3Get him to fall in love with you all over again. Your boyfriend was drawn to you in the first place, so encourage him to feel the same way about you again. Consider what he found desirable, interesting and attractive about you in the beginning. Whether it's your fresh and fun way with style, sense of humor or witty way with words, accentuate the qualities about you that he loves to win back his heart -- for good.
4Gain confidence. Breakups can be emotionally difficult and can cause people to feel lazy and unmotivated. Realize that being lazy and unmotivated will only cause you to lose self-esteem and will in no way help you attract back your ex-boyfriend. Get confidence by working on yourself; whether it's by following a healthier diet, going to the gym several times a week or by learning a new skill (such as cooking or how to speak German). Confidence is one of the most attractive and alluring qualities that a person can have, and your boyfriend will likely pick up on yours. Avoid toiling in misery after a breakup, and instead be proactive in changing your life.
5Listen to him. Many relationships fail due to a lack of proper communication. To attract your boyfriend back, show him that you care by actively and intently listening to what he has to say. If you want your boyfriend back in your life, it is important to be willing to hear all of his problems with the relationship. This is not to say that you need to jump at all of his requests, but that you need to provide him with the respect of saying his peace to you. Listening to each other is the first step to compromise, and all relationships require some measure of compromise in order to thrive.
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