How to Know if You Are Sabotaging Your Relationship

All relationships have their fair share of ups and downs. You two argue, maybe even break-up and come back together again. To determine if your relationship will make it for the long haul requires a deeper look at some of the core issues between you two. There are likely to be several reoccurring problems that will tip you off to what is ailing your bond together. However, a closer look may show that, for the most part, a lot of the stress in your relationship could be coming from you.

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Notice how frustrated he gets when you bring up all the little things you'd like to change about yourself. All you seem to focus on in your relationship is what you are not. If you let your insecurities take control over how happy you feel about yourself, it's a surefire way to sabotage your relationship. He doesn't need to be reminded every time you two are intimate that you need to work on your tummy. Nor should you incessantly ask him if he's happy with you. Be yourself and work on your personal goals at your own pace but don't put the pressure you feel on your relationship. Remember he's with you because he wants to be and he likes you for you.

Think before you speak when it seems that you are constantly putting your foot in your mouth. Whether you constantly bring up your ex or you accidently tell your girlfriend she looks like she "picked up a little weight," you just don't say the right things. When almost about everything you say seems to upset her or start an argument, you should really consider what you say before it leaves your mouth. Hurting her feelings so consistently that you spend more time apologizing for something you've said or done is a recipe for disaster in your relationship.

Avoid bringing old business and just leave the past where it is, in the past. When you remind him about what the relationship used to be or how he acted in another relationship, you're setting yourself up to be targeted for an argument. When he's shut down from talking about the future because he complains you can't get over the past, evaluate how that will affect you two moving forward.

Consider how important it is to be a key supporter for your mate. When you belittle him or immediately reject any of his ideas for what he wants to do, you're not acting in a way that fosters a healthy relationship. Knowing your partner supports your efforts, views and ideas is important. Without it, the end may be very near.

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