How to Handle a Fight With Your Boyfriend

Even if you are exceptionally easy to get along with, you will almost inevitably experience periods of feuding with your boyfriend. While some fights can be relationship ending, not all will have such dire consequences. Instead of necessarily expecting the worst and allowing a fight with your boyfriend to temporarily derail your life, take the feud in stride and adeptly navigate the disagreement.

Instructions

Take time to cool off. Don't allow your eagerness to put the fight behind you and get back to your bliss lead you to rush to resolve the fight. Often, if you try to push your boyfriend to discuss the issue before he is ready to you will only injure the relationship more. Instead, allow him -- and yourself -- time to cool off, substantially decreasing the likelihood of a heated argument.

Identify the problem. Often when couples become embroiled in a fight they lose the core problem. Don't allow yourself to lose sight of the issue that started it all, as you will never fully resolve this problem. Instead, think about what is at the root of the conflict and tackle the challenge directly.

Talk through the issue. After you have both had time to come to your senses, talk about the issues that exist between you. Do not allow this talking to become yelling, but instead remain as level headed as humanly possible and try to divorce yourself from your emotions, improving your ability to problem solve.

Reach an agreement. Though reaching an agreement may be difficult, it is necessary to truly putting the problem to bed. If, for example, you are fighting because he feels that your job is more important to you than he is, agree to dedicate at least one night a week solely to him, resolving the problem, albeit perhaps temporarily.

Remind your boyfriend of the agreement if the issue resurfaces. Once you have created a solution, you can fall back on this solution again in the future. While you don't want to seem accusatory, you can kindly remind your boyfriend of the agreement you reached during your past bout, cutting future fights short.

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