How to Assess Your Relationship

This article tells you how to decide whether your relationship is worth saving.

Instructions

The first thing you need to do is list your investments, commitments and entanglements with regard to the relationship. Do you have children together? Are you jointly responsible for a pet? Do you own property together? Are your finances intertwined? Do you have joint investments? Are you jointly liable for debts?

Your next step is to write a detailed description of your feelings about the relationship. What is its current status? How do you believe it got that way? Have there been any attempts to fix the problem? Have there been any efforts to repair the damage? Do you believe it is damaged beyond repair? Why or why not? Do you believe it is worth the effort it would take to fix it?

The last step involved in assessing your relationship is deciding whether you and your partner are willing to do the work that's necessary to repair it. Are you willing to communicate openly and honestly with your partner? Is it possible for you to completely and totally forgive your partner for whatever pain or harm you believe he has caused you? Would he be willing to forgive you for whatever pain or harm he believes you have caused him? Would the two of you be willing to commit to participating in relationship counseling for as long as it would take to repair your relationship? Are the two of you mature enough, strong enough and committed to each other enough to put the past behind you, support each other and help one another heal?

Once you have completed your assessment process, you will have a clear indication of whether or not your relationship should be rushed to intensive care or sent to the morgue.

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