When your relationship with your boyfriend runs its course, whether because of irreconcilable differences and constant arguments or because of simply drifting apart, there comes a time in which you have to break up and end the relationship for good. One method for doing so is by writing a breakup letter, in which you say goodbye to everything that you shared as a couple.
Instructions
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Compose the letter in your own handwriting. Do not send someone a "Dear John" letter through email or by typing it out. These methods can come across as harsh and impersonal. Take the time to say how you feel in your own writing, even if you have to initially plan your words with a computer.
2Begin the letter on a positive note by reminiscing about the positive and fun times that you both shared as a couple, either about your first date or of hilarious inside jokes that you had together.
3Avoid being mean. Simply put, the point of a goodbye letter is just that -- to say goodbye. Do not put together an accusatory list of everything that he ever did wrong to you or note all of his flaws. Perhaps, on the other hand, try to mention things that you might have done wrong in the relationship, in order to place emphasis on the fact that both of you are incompatible romantically.
4Be clear. Do not beat around the bush. Do not leave your boyfriend with any doubts as to what you are trying to accomplish, and also do not leave any false hope. Make it absolutely clear in the letter that you are parting ways.
5Discuss what you have learned from the relationship. Even if the negative outweighs the good in a failed romance, you most likely are able to walk away a better person. Perhaps your boyfriend taught you how to be more compassionate or taught you how to appreciate sports. Delve into what about the relationship makes you grateful and glad to have experienced it.
6Avoid conveying the impression that you are devastated or lost by the idea of breaking up. This will lead to confusion. Keep the letter in a positive tone and try to encourage the concept of positivity and newness for both of you in the future and in moving on.
7Wish him good luck. Tell him that you are hoping for a good future for him in all of his endeavors, and keep your tone sincere. Do not mention the idea of being friends, as that can simply muddle the situation. A potential period of friendship can come later, following time apart and healing.
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